Week ago, singgah bfast with my daug b4 pergi pasar. Time nak balik, ternampak my daug's fren's mom, sitting alone, sugul .. mcm nak nangis pun ada. On d way nak keluar, tegur dia, she sound so upset .. duduk kejap kat depan dia. Then barulah tau sedih dia sbb anak kesayangannya. She is a single parent & just tinggal dgn anak sorg tu jer. So bila dpt tau anak dia buat s'thg yg broke her heart, sedih sgt .. katanya mcm nak lari tinggalkan anaknya kat rumah anak yatim. Dia minta me tlg nasihat her daug... me tgk muka Syiqin, sedih jer .. so me minta Syiqin ajak her fren keluar. Tgklah apa yg me boleh buat.
Last Sat, we all keluar sama2 .. mula2 as usual, me biarkan diaorg jalan sama2 .. enjoy themselves dulu .. then ajak masuk fast food. Me sebenarnya tak tau nak cakap apa bcoz me tau mak dia dah cakap byk dah .. Last sekali apa yg keluar dari mulut me benar2 buat dia nangis & Syiqin pun sedih. Me cuma tanya dia, what if her mother is not around. Confirm no 'bebel' from mak and the makciks & pakciks will definitely hantar pi rumah anak yatim sebab give up nak handle her. Is that what she want? And I tanya dia, agaknya kalau anak dia buat what she did, apa yg dia nak buat? Again I tell her, I wont benefit anything kalau dia jadi baik & I didnt loss anything kalau dia jadi jahat coz she is just a friend to my daug .. but the benefit will go to herself & maybe her mom .. Tapi I minta dia berubah for herself, mum & org2 yg dia sayang.
Sedih sebenarnya, I dont know I can be as strong as her mum if I'm at her place.
P/s .. tak mudah mendidik anak di zaman cyber ni
bukan senang jadi single parent kan..
ReplyDeletemacam2 dugaan hidup nak kene hadapi...
kalau anak2 mendengar kata alhamdulillah, tapi kalau sebaliknya, mesti pening kepala sbb banyak fikir..
Betul Me..bukan senang nak didik anak2 zaman sekarang..kita tau coz kita pun ada anak remaja..
ReplyDeleteRemaja ni..semua benda dia nak try..tu yg takut..sangat...
bukan la ni mmg pandai2 belaka...hehe
ReplyDeleteBetul kan akak..sekarang ni terlalu banyak dugaan & cabaran yang kita kena hadapi..tu yang sesekali terfikir macam nak berhenti keje je nak jaga anak 24 jam!!!
ReplyDeleteZaila .. whatever decision you buat, biarlah atas kehendak sendiri. Kalau u rasa puas hati mendidik mereka sendiri, yes go on. Me pun pernah terfikir like that esp bila fikir abt Luqman, tapi tah knp till now still kat office. May be sbb Me selesa skrg kerja dekat rumah, boleh monitor them every now & then..
ReplyDeletesis, i am very grateful to get to know ur blog from lady's list. thanks to you both. i learnt a lot here.
ReplyDeleterisau pun ada takut fail dalam mendidik anak. kekadang tu hangin jugak dengan peel anak2 ni.